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By Failing at Being a People Pleaser 

I used to be a brilliant people pleaser. In fact, I could have written a book on how to do it perfectly!  

I was so attuned to other people and hyper-vigilant about anticipating their needs, I completely lost sight of what I wanted for myself....

The way we treat ourselves is crucial to every aspect of our lives. Our sense of self frames our potential to grow, to feel fulfilled and to live the life we deserve.  

However, many of us are guilty of critical self-talk and self-judgement. We struggle to accept ourselves and rarely...

We’re continuing the theme of how we ask for more of what we want and need, and this time, it’s forgiveness.

If you’ve been hurt by someone, it’s easy and natural to be angry and upset because of their actions. And often the interpretation of forgiveness can feel like we...

We’re continuing the theme of how we ask for more of what we want and need, and this time, it’s more connection. 

Human beings are social creatures. We have evolved to thrive on interacting with other people and the wider world around us.  

Research shows that the...

We’re continuing the theme of how we ask for more of what we want and need, and this time, it’s how you can find more joy. 

Many of us reply on attempts of meticulous planning as we juggle busy schedules packed with work and family commitments. It’s often the time allocated...

This series is about how we ask for more of what we need, because generally we’re not taught how to do this and don’t even realise how important it is.

This week I investigate the messages we receive as a child and how they start to form our map of the world. From this messaging, we...

Have you noticed that most people are programmed into focusing on having less of something they don’t want, rather than having more of what they want?

I used to be like this, my thoughts were always around “Oh, if only I had less fatigue!” “If only I had less...